Everything Falls Apart
Piles of mud, chain link fence, equipment yet to be assembled, a sharp contrast to where the new and pristine playground I saw today. It was fenced off and under construction for months. I imagine the local children clung to the fence with longing looks, fingers entwined in the chain link, as their parents tried to tug them along. “When’s it going to be done?”
Life Under Construction
When the storm of divorce strikes and everything falls apart, it is our lives that have to be reconstructed. We too want to know “When’s it going to be done?” We want flowers instead of mud. We want our lives reassembled and working. We want to be able to think straight and have some breathing room. And just like to those children clinging to the fence imagining taking a swing, we are somewhere between frustrated and crippled by how long it takes.
Are you still in the “When is it going to be done?” question?
2015 is coming to a close. Is your life where you wanted it to be at this time? Do you have the inner peace you want? Are your relationships stable? Are you happy with your job and the money you make? Do you like yourself? If you answered No to any of those, call me. Let’s get your life back on track so you can finish the year strong.
Wishing you abundant happiness,
P.S. One guaranteed way for things to take even longer is trying to do your recovery and empowerment work on your own. There’s almost a 2-year difference between those who go it alone and those who get help. Which one of those do you want to be?