- Has your relationship hit a wall?
- Are you wondering if you can save your relationship or if you should end it?
- Is it really worth the effort or will it just be the same old same old?
- Would you like to know if you (individually and together) have what it takes to create a happy marriage?
- Do you want to know that you know that there isn’t any more that you can do?
Ending a relationship is a big deal. If you have children it’s an even bigger deal. If you’ve been together a long time the emotional impact is greater. It is painful even if you want the divorce. Wouldn’t you like to know that you know that it’s the right decision? It was very important to me that I one day be able to look my children in the eye and tell them I did the best I could.
Your Relationship Assessment
In 90 minutes, I can tell you where your relationship is stuck. I can also tell you approximately how long it will take and what it will require of you, to turn things around. You can then decide if you want to. This kind of information is invaluable.
There is little in life that causes us more stress than relationship difficulties. Our relationships are tied to our hearts. Our heart strings are attached to every other area of our lives. If it seems like you’ve tried everything and nothing is working you may be tempted to end the relationship simply out of despair. Most of us don’t know what we’re up against when we hit a relational wall. We just can’t see around it to any kind of solution and so ending the relationship seems like the best, and perhaps the only option. Honestly, though, many times the wall you hit is a life challenge you will need to meet whether in this relationship, as a single, or in another relationship. Those growth challenges don’t just go away. They wait patiently for us until we’re ready. It could be that working through them right where you are is the best place.
Should you want to start making steps toward change at some point, you will create for yourselves the opportunity for an entirely new marriage, as a new person and with a new person. There is no need to go back to the same old same old. Please don’t. You deserve better.
Your next step:
If you would like to know the nature of the wall you’ve hit, the nature of the painful dynamics between you, and if it’s worth your time and effort to find the workaround, I suggest you schedule use this link to schedule your Relationship Assessment today.
If you’d like to learn more before you sign up let’s talk for free for a few minutes. We can make sure this is the right thing for you at this time.