Divorce is hard at any time. Particularly difficult during the holidays. My former spouse told me he wanted to divorce on Thanksgiving Day and wanted to tell the kids at Christmas when they all came home. I just couldn't do that to them. What a way to ruin Christmas...
This is the second part of a three-part article detailing divorce survival tips. After reading the book Deep Survival – Who Lives, Who Dies, and Why, by Lawrence Gonzales I realized that divorce is itself a survival situation.
This is the final part of a three-part article detailing divorce survival tips. After reading the book Deep Survival – Who Lives, Who Dies, and Why, by Lawrence Gonzales I realized that divorce is itself a survival situation.
In a recent divorce class two women asked if I had something written about the emotional devastation and preoccupation people experience while going through a divorce so they could give it to friends
Sometimes it's hard to know the right thing to do for children during divorce. It may be even harder to implement if it requires being civil to an Ex you'd rather never see again.
Susan attended my divorce recovery class 5 years ago. She contacted me again recently because her Ex was getting re-married.
My transition has been hard on my spouse, hard on my bank account, and hard on my ego. I’ve been at my breaking point many times.
I usually write my newsletters about something I'm learning in my own life that I believe will also be of interest to you.
I'm several years out of my divorce and many more years out of my marital home and it's just starting to hit me. I'm sure I preemptively grieved the lost memories.
The first few weeks tend to the hard work of overcoming the emotions of divorce, but weeks 5 through week 10 are exploratory learning.