The 3 Phases of an Upheaval Everything in life has some version of beginning, middle, and end. Upheavals do too. Understanding the 3 phases of an upheaval is helpful so
Transitions – Insights Do Come I’ve experienced many transitions. So have you, even if you didn’t recognize it at the time. Having just come through another one, I’m gaining all kinds
Radical Self Care During Divorce How are you feeling after the new year? Is it starting out the way you hoped? If you’re going through a divorce, and January
Are you brand new to divorce? Are you wondering where to start? There are so many things to think about it can be overwhelming. For many of us a divorce is
Dumped and Feeling Abandoned In a previous post I mentioned two types of folks who have the most difficulty getting through divorce.
Divorce is hard, yes? Ask anyone who has been through it. It’s harder for some than others. I have observed divorce being most difficult for people in two specific life
Inspired by Robin Williams I was running errands recently in the hustle and bustle of urban life. It all seemed so helter skelter, unorganized, chaotic. A thought came to me:
As usual, I seek the symbolism or metaphor in such an event. I imagine those of you who are divorcing can relate deeply to being caught in a current that has a life of its own, leaving a wake of destruction. A life rearranged after its passing. Piles of...
I've known Steve Gilbert for over 30 years. He's stood by my side through most of my life's struggles, always being about 5 years ahead of me... just enough to be my mentor and guide. I've been able to be his strength and guide on occasion also. Our friendship...
I have such respect for the people I work with. They are right up against it. "It" being, “Should I go, or should I stay?” Or, “I’m on my own, now what?” Or, “How the ‘H’ am I ever going to get through this?” Or, “I am so overwhelmed...