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23 Dec

The Changing Meaning of Holidays

The Changing Meaning of Holidays How are you doing with the holidays? As I’ve gotten older and my children are off doing their adult lives, the holidays have changed meaning. Holidays have always been about family: children, grandchildren, parents, siblings. Now

25 Aug

Midlife—Time to Confront the Life You’ve Been Living

Midlife—Time to Confront the Life You’ve Been Living In approving new comments on my blog this morning I ran across this one from quite some time ago. I’d asked permission to reprint it, but then never did…so here it is.

13 Aug

Changing Long-Standing Belief Systems

I’ve been on a quest to change some long-standing belief systems…you know…those beliefs we pick up as kids (often not very useful ones) which become the glasses through which we see the world. A belief many people share is, “There

23 Jun

Do Your Memories Haunt You? How to Let Them Go

Do Memories Haunt You? What is it about memories? When things are good memories are happy. When things aren’t going so well it seems like memories are just plain sad. I’m going to share the new and useful way I just learned

11 Mar

Upheaval is Everywhere—In Nature, In Us

Upheaval Is Everywhere I’ve been pondering upheaval to uplevel again. That’s become my new buzz phrase. I’m noticing that upheaval is everywhere, which is somehow comforting. What that means that it is not unusual to me, or you, but is

17 Feb

The Gift That Keeps On Giving

The Gift That Keeps On Giving I didn’t know just how lost I was until my life fell apart. I had no idea that Life was making a way for new growth—and new fruit—in my barren life. How was I

02 Jun

Using Upheaval for Good

From Upheaval to Uplevel That’s my new slogan: From Upheaval to Uplevel as I’m settling into a new way of doing life… I’m not sure where I got the idea that life was supposed to be a steady incline that

03 Dec

Tears – What Do Yours Look Like?

Tears - What Do Yours Look Like I was recently introduced to the work of Rose Lynn Fisher who studies, and photographs, tears. I found it fascinating

23 Nov

Why Journal?

By jeannine
In Communication, Emotions, Finding Peace, Manage Your Thoughts, Uncategorized

Your Journal is Your Friend I encourage people all the time to call friends to talk with them. It’s so important to have a place to spill your guts when you’re trying to figure something out or you need

30 Oct

Conquering the Inner Critic

By jeannine
In After Divorce, Divorce Help, Divorce Recovery, Emotions, Looking Forward, Manage Your Thoughts, Uncategorized
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Are You Tired of Your Inner Critic? Are you aware of your inner critic? You know … that voice in your head that tells you you can’t do anything right. Most of us have an insidious inner critic that