A Great Singleness
Your divorce is over. Your emotions have settled. You’re seeing more clearly and sighing a sigh of relief. A smile comes across your face more often than before. The next step is in front of you. Turning Points 1-3 are behind you. The more fun a rewarding Turning Points 4 and 5 beckon.
There are four steps to creating a great singleness after your divorce.
- Finish the emotional business around your old relationship. (Turning Points 1-3)
- Understand who you are now. (Turning Point 4)
- Build a solid social life with a community of quality friends. (Turning Point 5)
- Claim your new life and start living it. (Turning Point 5)
Understand Who You Are Now
Divorce changes us at a core level. It shakes loose old beliefs, programming, even people that no longer suit you and leaves you to put the pieces back together in a way that makes sense today. A new energy emerges. New desires. New interests. It’s like walking out of a haunted dark night into a flower strewn meadow. Relief. Pursuing your new interests and creating a community of new friends (including dating if that is of interest) who are aligned with the person you are now is both the joy and the challenge of these final Turning Points. With those in place, a vision of your new life can start to unfold. Just imagine living it.
You Deserve a Great Life
You deserve a great life and divorce can be the catalyst that challenges you to make it so. So often in life we just settle. Life is good enough and we are able to ignore the gnaw of unhappiness or boredom in our gut. And then comes an upheaval, a divorce, a health challenge, a financial hit and the pieces of our life goes flying. The good news is that that is life’s way of taking us out of what wasn’t working anyway and forcing on us the opportunity to re-create. Without help, our re-creation is limited. We mostly just long for things to be the same as before. But with my help you are guided to think outside your comfortable box so you can have different. At the very least you can be different. And that is the first step to re-create something new.
Chaos to Clarity 6-month or 12-month Coaching Program
In this coaching program we will put meaning and order to the chaos using a selection of hundreds of exercises, quizzes and assessments along with weekly coaching sessions with me. With each session you will develop a stronger sense of who you are and your vision of a new future will start developing. With your courage and my coaching you will create your life in a meaningful way.
Your next step:
Contact me. We can determine together where you are in the above steps, explore your vision, and put together a plan to get you there. Chaos to Clarity may be just the thing for you.
- (6-month program for Turnings Points 4 and 5)
- (12-month program for Turnings Points 1-5)