Heart Mediation

Sometimes two people just can’t work out the tricky areas of separating their lives on their own.  The topics are too personal and emotions too deep. You may need a little help to tease apart your attachments and your history. Heart mediation keeps your heart in mind as we work through any opposing perspectives. There are reasons each of you want the things you do. We will go beneath the emotions to find those reasons and where they intersect. Once you understand each other’s needs it’s much easier to come up with a solution that works for both of you.

We will work toward your agreements and you can then take those agreed points to an attorney for review and drafting into your agreement.

Yes, I will help you come to agreements like every other mediator, but my approach is a little different.  My background as a Relationship Systems Coach provides the possibility for unusually creative results.  I call my process Heart Mediation. Heart Mediation helps you communicate why you want what you want in a way that your partner will understand and want to meet your need, and you will want to meet your partner’s need.

• Does your home hold a lot of sentimental value for both of you and you’re not sure which of you should get it, or if you should sell it?
• Do you have certain prize possessions like art or jewelry that seem impossible to divide?
• Do you need an agreed plan to tell your children, family, friends?
• Want to discuss your children’s healthcare, friends, activities, driving age, or things like tattoos and piercings?
• Need to discuss how to divide or spend important family holidays after your divorce ?